tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post7510504949703965628..comments2023-09-26T01:45:05.972-06:00Comments on Leave it to brat.: The Elements of Fear.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-43172889728517963492015-01-01T11:50:35.992-07:002015-01-01T11:50:35.992-07:00Enzo, yes - that makes perfect sense. :)
Afraid ...Enzo, yes - that makes perfect sense. :) <br /><br />Afraid I have been bad at posting again the last few weeks. I am making a new years resolution to not keeping doing that! lol<br /><br /> Happy New Years, Enzo! :) xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-11025130844402420792014-12-14T13:47:29.404-07:002014-12-14T13:47:29.404-07:00Hi Amber,
Mind if I share my point of view from th...Hi Amber,<br />Mind if I share my point of view from the other side of the relationship.<br /><br />In simple terms, I am OK with my girls fearing disappointing me (and themselves), but I would never want them to fear me in general or my actions. Does that makes sense?<br /><br />Good to see you posting again.<br /><br />Best,<br />EnzoEnzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556688278392257042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-70941196805889128372014-12-05T08:12:37.051-07:002014-12-05T08:12:37.051-07:00Pet - hey you, I miss you! :) I actually have your...Pet - hey you, I miss you! :) I actually have your blog open in the other window as we speak! lol.<br /><br />I couldn't agree more. Seems to be what most of us fear most - disappointing them. And I so agree, spank me 'till I'm blue over disappointing Him. x_x :)<br /><br />Thank you for adding your input, I know this post wasn't very clear. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-90396585698697570392014-12-05T08:10:47.826-07:002014-12-05T08:10:47.826-07:00Brother sub - hugs! :) As always, you worded that ...Brother sub - hugs! :) As always, you worded that wonderfully. I think most of us likely feel that way. Disappointing them is such a horrible feeling. x_x A clean slate - yes, that does help very much. :) <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-41287714562568773192014-12-05T08:08:53.533-07:002014-12-05T08:08:53.533-07:00That wasn't muddled at all, hon. Made perfect ...That wasn't muddled at all, hon. Made perfect sense. :) I, and I know many others very much agree on fear of isolation. I also know many that have the same in pain as a reward. :) But, your last line there - that was So well said. :) Thank you for your input on my very unorganized post! :)<br /><br />I hope your pain levels are better - I can so relate to that. Mine have been a mess since I came off of the morphine. xx Gentle hugs! xxooAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-25834647259744457422014-12-04T13:13:48.425-07:002014-12-04T13:13:48.425-07:00I find that fear is a huge part of our relationshi...I find that fear is a huge part of our relationship, but like others say, it isn't the fear of physical punishment or of a spanking, it is the fear of His disappointment. Knowing that I displeased Him is terrible. Seeing it in His eyes kills me. I would rather take a long and painful spanking than to see that look. Master's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944635484449235627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-10240010797720194792014-12-04T08:25:25.138-07:002014-12-04T08:25:25.138-07:00Hi sister sub. For me, it is not the element of f...Hi sister sub. For me, it is not the element of fear that is the primary force. For me it is fear of disappointing Mistress K., whether it is in just a small way of in a big way. Don't get me wrong, when I am due to be punished, there is the element of fear. But there is also the element of knowing that once I have endured my punishment, the slate is clean. It helpssub hub in phxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17489169642204094414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-76618335726924842902014-12-03T17:06:01.748-07:002014-12-03T17:06:01.748-07:00For me it's fear of isolation. That is the wor...For me it's fear of isolation. That is the worst punishment, being sent away as a punishment. That is how I know I've stepped far beyond the line, when he sends me to the corner, or just walks away from me. Sir never uses pain as a punishment, it is reserved for rewards or just because he feels like hurting me. (Reward in itself) <br />So in a way, fear does keep me in line. Mostly I try to stay inline because I love knowing that I have pleased him, that he is proud of me. <br /><br />(Sorry my response is all muddled, and I hope I didn't completely miss the point of the post, but I'm having a bad pain week and my mess make me stupid. :p )Awkward Frog Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03724465887552930650noreply@blogger.com