tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45944795612841398192024-03-18T21:33:39.193-06:00Leave it to brat.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comBlogger96125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-32871313912925857462015-09-28T12:01:00.000-06:002015-09-28T12:01:16.404-06:00Off Hiatus!We're settled in, and <a href="http://www.brattopia.com/">Brattopia </a>is back to business.<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/where-we-left-off-where-we-are-now/">See where things are.</a><br />
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I hope everyone over here in Blogger Land is doing well. I am trying to catch up with everyone as quickly as I can. xxx<br />
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brattAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-49964821057229267682015-05-14T10:49:00.000-06:002015-05-14T10:49:18.216-06:00Well, I didn't See THAT Coming!<div style="background-color: #fafafa; color: #5a5a5a; font-family: Allerta; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23px; margin-bottom: 10px;">
Sometimes we seek out <del>things </del>people that we need. Sometimes though, they just kind of fall into our laps. Even when we didn't realize we were seeking them.</div>
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For many years now, Daddy has told me that I have a very big switch side in me. It’s something I haven’t explored in a very long time. Well, with some things that have happened here recently, that side has woken up full on.</div>
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/well-i-didnt-see-that-coming/">Read more here!</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-30858769021764477962015-04-25T10:33:00.000-06:002015-04-25T10:33:01.271-06:00Brattopia University!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We have added something new and fun to Brattopia to go along with the Brattopia Tutorials. Brattopia University!<br />
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The first two lessons have been posted:<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/a-beginners-lesson-in-dominance/">A Beginner's Lesson in Dominance</a> - posted by Daddy.<br />
<a href="http://brattopia.com/brattopia-university-a-beginners-lesson-in-submission/">A Beginner's Lesson in Submission</a> - posted by me.<br />
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More rope bondage tutorials coming soon as well! Please join us!<br />
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<i>Personal note: I have been sick, and have fallen very behind on catching up with everyone here at Blogger. But I hope to be able to do so soon! I hope you guys are all doing well! xxx</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-11044067695287070032015-03-27T12:35:00.001-06:002015-03-27T12:35:53.891-06:00Oh So Squirmy Wet.A short snippet from today's post:<br />
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So, how do I handle being all wet and squirmy when He has been away?
It’s not an easy thing to do, when you are to follow a rule that states
that you may not touch,play or masturbate without permission. What is a
gal to do when she has such a high sex drive?<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/oh-so-squirmy-wet/">Read more at Brattopia! </a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-86582281612795206582015-03-25T17:19:00.001-06:002015-03-25T17:19:16.818-06:00KOTW: Mm, Corsets: Tips to wearing them!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwihcAykSkv_F3-5hE44Vn1DaxlXRFglCU9wMu882LT4sJSHgrWAl8kqNtXrn7S_uyoF9ywuqpT_xEhfsTCyPySXFtdZwBpup8cFlRMv1YFTxYsWdks9wAbprCkmNKegEgYQslQy7Du7U/s1600/corset.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwihcAykSkv_F3-5hE44Vn1DaxlXRFglCU9wMu882LT4sJSHgrWAl8kqNtXrn7S_uyoF9ywuqpT_xEhfsTCyPySXFtdZwBpup8cFlRMv1YFTxYsWdks9wAbprCkmNKegEgYQslQy7Du7U/s1600/corset.jpg" height="299" width="320" /></a>I have always had a love for dressing sexy. From role-play, costumes, to
a night out, or a fun night in the bedroom or home dungeon (read Garage
’till we move and Daddy can set up a proper one <img alt=":P" class="wp-smiley" src="http://brattopia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif" />
). Corsets will always be one of my top favorites. I love being laced
up in one. Daddy lacing me up always instantly makes me feel so
wonderful, and puts me in such a delicious head space. Whether it’s for
His pleasure,for a night at the Dungeon or for an event.<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/kotw-mmcorsets-tips-to-wearing-them/">Read more! </a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-8174600137683718872015-03-24T15:59:00.000-06:002015-03-24T15:59:38.672-06:00Tuesday Tutorial: Orgasm Control/Conditioning. <br />
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For those who are new to the life, this term is something that can be
both intriguing and somewhat intimidating. I can assure you though,
that by following these few steps, and being consistent, orgasm
conditioning and control can become a part of your daily life, providing
both pleasure and torment for any sub, of any gender.<br />
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*NOTE: For those readers
that are already in a long term relationship, some of these steps may
seem a bit elementary but, for educational purposes, let’s start from
the beginning.</div>
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Step 1) Observe your partner during sex and play and take note of
the things that get them off. Is it a particular position, soft or rough
sex, or specific kinks such as spanking or needle play. And have your
partner notify you when they are at the point of orgasm Do this for
several sessions before you begin any kind of training.<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/tuesday-tutorial-orgasm-control/">Read more..... </a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-3866643310216501662015-03-19T21:18:00.000-06:002015-03-20T09:33:37.147-06:00Female Gushing- What about that A and U spot?!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I belong to a group of folks, a secret group – <b><i>shhhh</i> </b>- that has the most amazing, and like, <i>(Ack, 80’s lingo moment there!)</i> open minded people ever. We joke. We share porn. We vent. We flirt. Everything, and anything goes with these guys and
gals. I mean, seriously. A few nights ago in a thread we got to going
on about squirting and female ejaculation. A couple of the ladies were
like, <i>AHH, no. Never has happened for me!</i> So of course, I have decided to do a whole fun post about just that.<br />
Rumor always holds it that it’s all about the G-spot. But, what about
the A-spot and U-spot?! Don’t look at me like I am as crazy as a straw,
these do exist, I promise!<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/?p=260">Read more.... </a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-10921381614642628432015-03-18T08:34:00.000-06:002015-03-18T08:34:23.900-06:00The Nipple Noose. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Welcome to Tutorial Tuesday! Being I do not make knots, nooses-
(gooses?) around here… Daddy is going to be presenting all the fun
upcoming bondage lessons. After all, I just wear them, if I try to tie
them, I get tangled! Enjoy!<br />
bratt xx<br />
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For the Brattopia inaugural tutorial, I present. The basic nipple noose!<br />
This easy tie is a good start for any of you who are new to the
rope/bondage scene and want to play at home, work, or just during a
casual day out! Depending on the size of your material, this tie can be
worn under your clothes, providing a nice tease of sensation until you
can get back home for some play time.<br />
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<a href="http://www.brattopia.com/">Read more at Brattopia! </a>
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/?p=231">Ask bratt - J and brattygirrl.</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-36323962790189864962015-03-08T15:53:00.000-06:002015-03-08T15:53:03.970-06:00Brattopia!<a href="http://www.brattopia.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="www.brattopia.com" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7ouPymCdfVGvNbRiufp_JiLnyTgPfvIynUzxc6c8Ucaw0C49hPU10ZeSh7nd3dXkmioqCyafpN_pWBrgXdqtMETXEqREYLdv-GHo2M59CV-TFo3-NWHA77UeHSmkEOSdY72v8F1yBIy0/s1600/brattopialogo2.jpg" /></a>Well, after a bit of time of absence here, I have the new home all setup! As I have said in a recent post, I will be leaving this blog open, and will post links to new updates so new updates will still appear in the blogger feed.<br />
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I have added a blog list on the site, and really hope I got everyone! If I missed you, or you'd like to be linked, please let me know.<br />
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On the March question thing that is going around - <a class="g-profile" href="https://plus.google.com/110308827928322319841" target="_blank">+jay subhubphx</a> over at <a href="http://subhubphx.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">submissive husband in Phoenix </a>was so kind to come and let me know about this, and I am now open for questions for anyone who would like to ask me any. I will be spending this coming week catching up on all your blogs, and asking questions as well. <br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/vanilla/" target="_blank"><img alt="http://brattopia.com/vanilla/" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgidfcJCgL5cyIjxUUOTjtzTOR06JP_wR_DLjLyNX_Hjr4mvJT6FpL0FIxulU_3qTSNWKYpXFBGNwQwmK1S6UdiJjVPX7coLufLq9bNbZH5hruLIPgSveL_jtlXye55PVIS1DHDkPs2_n8/s1600/forumloggo.jpg" /></a>In addition to my new domain, I have opened and am working on <a href="http://brattopia.com/vanilla/" target="_blank">Brattopia's Forum.</a> Which is an idea that sort of lead off the community blog idea. If enough people show interest, I will open a community blog for everyone on a subdomain of Brattopia. I think it could be really great! And I really hope the Forum will be something everyone will be interested in as well.<br />
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<a href="http://brattopia.com/?page_id=2" target="_blank">Ask Brat </a>is back up and running - and I will be catching up on the couple of Ask brat questions that I have gotten recently. I have added a contact form in the ask brat post for easier use. In that form, you can now also easily ask questions anonymously.<br />
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And, last but not least..<a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Brattopia/850535018345214?ref=br_tf" target="_blank"> Brattopia is now on Facebook </a>as well! :) <br />
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I have met SO many wonderful people here at Blogger, and I truly hope to see you guys at the new Domain. I will still be around reading and commenting. <br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-46802646107288328162015-02-28T12:16:00.004-07:002015-02-28T12:16:52.691-07:00Who is staying, Who is going?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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So rumor holds it that Blogger has changed it's mind about the new terms when it comes to the explicit sexual content terms. I am still, however going to be moving to my own domain. It was something I had been considering doing for awhile now anyway. I know a lot of people have already moved over to Wordpress and other homes. I am trying, and will keep trying to keep track of where everyone is here, or elsewhere. No matter where I am platform wise, I will still be a faithful reader to all of you. If you have moved, I would very much appreciate it if you'd leave me a link here to your new home.<br />
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Del Fonte over at A Place of Fancies did an excellent post about WordPress, for anyone who is still pondering maybe moving that way. You can find the post <a href="http://placeoffancies.blogspot.com/2015/02/what-hell-is-wordpress.html?showComment=1425149881747#c4882202729699952443" target="_blank">here. </a><br />
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For those staying here at blogger, although I am moving, I will be leaving this blog open and will post updates when I make new posts, so it'll show in the blogger post feed. <br />
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With all that said, I hope everyone has a wonderful and kinky weekend! xx<br />
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P.S I have a few ask brat questions that are sitting in my email box, I will be getting to them as soon as I get moved. Thank you for the patience. :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-15990649575409646702015-02-24T10:42:00.002-07:002015-02-24T10:42:59.792-07:00Oh, blogger. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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A lot of bloggers are posting about the upcoming worry of the email we all received on Blogger no longer allowing blogs that contain sexually explicit content. While the pictures I post are usually of pretty decent taste, I, like others worry that written context will be next. What will be considered under the category of no longer allowed?<br />
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I have for some time already been pondering moving back to my own Domain. I feel now is the time to do it. I truly, truly hope that the followers and friends I have made here at Blogger will still be active within the new home I will set up. For those of you who do not wish to move, I will still of course, visit your blogs on a regular basis. I have met so many amazing people here, and so appreciate the friendships that we all have developed. <br />
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I will let you all know when the new domain is setup and ready to view.<br />
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xx<br />
bratAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-82621353407534064512015-02-23T13:52:00.000-07:002015-02-23T13:52:41.780-07:00Sir VS. Daddy.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: #e06666;">When I first came fully out in <a href="http://mortuarychick.blogspot.com/2014/07/a-new-chapter-no-more-hiding.html" target="_blank">this post</a>, I had this thing running through my head that said - people still won't get it if you address Him as Daddy. All the taboo stereotypes often fall into place with the title. Between that, and trying to embrace more of my slave role, I quickly fell into the habit of addressing Him as Sir on the blog. Now here is the funny part, He actually really dislikes being called Sir. Only in formal or high protocol settings am I ordered to address Him as such. I believe this is because He is a soldier, and relates it to work, perhaps? Either way, every time I refer to Him here as Sir, my gut kind of - rolls over. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;">It makes me realize that yes, I have came out. And yes, I have made huge progress in no longer hiding who we are, or how we live. Especially since my article was published. But, I am still holding back by addressing Him as Sir. I have spent quite a bit of time pondering this lately, and am feeling that this is one of the last hurdles I need to jump over in being fully out. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;">I will now address Him as Daddy, as I do in every day life. I've also realized that I thought we were 'out'. I had been determined not to hide anything anymore, from anyone. However, when my article was published, I realized there were still a lot of people in our lives that I didn't quite fully do so with. I had SO hesitated in sharing my article on Facebook. I finally did, though - and am so glad I did. It got shared, liked, and passed around with so many encouraging and kind words. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;">In turn, I heard from a lot of people who took the time to let me know that they understood, or a lot of them actually live the same way or have the desire to do so. Some of them, I would have never guessed. It brought us closer together on a very awesome new level. I received comments like - "I shared your article with my husband, he was all over me after. Maybe there is some hope after all!" or, "It is so wonderful to see someone spreading the word and keeping it real." </span><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;">So encouraging it has been, and I am now even more determined to not hold back, to stay real... to stay uncensored and to not hide who I am. I know that many do not have the choice to do so, and for very understandable reasons. Work, family etc. But for me, I have no reason to hide anymore.. not even that last bit that I have held back over the months since I have started this blog. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #e06666;"><br /></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-85189660251562385832015-02-13T11:52:00.000-07:002015-02-13T11:52:53.916-07:00Am I cut out to be a...submissive?My first article topic from <a href="http://www.simplysxy.com/" target="_blank">SimplySxy</a> has been published!<br />
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<a href="http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/02/13/will-i-make-a-good-submissive/" target="_blank">Will I make a good submissive?</a><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-38558608306477686592015-02-04T14:26:00.000-07:002015-02-04T14:26:02.725-07:00Look at me, I'm growing! Things have been rather busy here.<br />
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A few may remember that I have mentioned my brother a few times in past posts. He died about 12 years ago, and to this day I don't handle his death real well. He was my everything growing up, and my best friend throughout life even as adults. Well, years after his death a young girl contacted me on Facebook. I had heard about her, and that Brian may have had a daughter at one time. He never knew for sure if she was his, but he paid child support for her and always said..."If I don't take care of her, no one else will." That's just the kind of guy he was. Had an amazing heart.<br />
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Anyway, fast forward and we talked here and there throughout a few years. We ended up doing a DNA test and what I already suspected was true. A very high 90 percent something said yes, she is his. I didn't have much doubt. You could see the resemblance in her photos. Sir was convinced on day one being she looks so much like me. There was a ton of family drama, from some in her family, and a lot in my family. Her and I just kinda got stuck in the middle of it all. I got to a point where I closed down to all of it. You can only get disowned by family so many times before you get a bit bitter. <br />
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Well, the timing was finally right and she is here. I am completely amazed by how much she looks like a mix of me and my brother. We're taking time to get to know her, she'll be here for a few weeks or so. So many crazy mix of emotions so far. <br />
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She fits in well here, and I am enjoying watching her get to know everyone...and getting to know her. Look at me, I'm growing. ;) I am learning to embrace, and not run away. Woo!<br />
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Aside that, the main reason I came to post is to show you guys my new collar! I have many collars, from casual to formal. All of them though, are leather or other material that cannot get wet and so on. With that said, I often get in trouble for forgetting to put it back on. Bad brat! I try to do better with this. No choice of forgetting with this one, it locks! :) Anyway, Sir and I have been wanting a new every day collar for awhile. Eee! I am so excited to get it. Isn't it pretty!? xxAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-69426458396198193112015-01-30T15:57:00.000-07:002015-01-30T15:57:19.563-07:00Communication: Asking for those harder things.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Communication. It starts when we are young kids and are learning how to speak, and we then spend our lives learning how to use those words. In this lifestyle communication is without a doubt one of the most important things. We learn that it is best to talk about everything, and I do mean, everything.<br />
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Our fears. Our wants... Our desires, needs, thoughts, feelings, limits and well yeah,everything else. That doesn't however, always make it easy.<br />
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It seems to be a common thing in many submissives to struggle in asking their Dominant for certain things. Like a spanking...yes, some of us do ask for those...(Or, at least we want to ask for them!) Sometimes for the release. Sometimes to help us get back in place...and sometimes, because it's well... hot. <br />
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Or, one for me would be this: Sir has me follow the rule of no touching the fun bits without permission. His, or mine. Often at night, He has me lay in His lap while we watch a movie or tv shows, and...well, before you know it my hand starts to get that mind of it's own issue going on, and sneaks up to grope. I mean, it's right there! And, I am hooked. I admit it! I often do not even think much of doing it before I hear..."Young lady!" This sadly happens at <i>least </i>once a night. You'd think I would have broke this habit by now! But when I sit and think about it, it's not that I am trying to be disobedient. It's more that this is one of those silly little things that I have a hard time asking for. In my brain, it falls into that area of dirty talk. Which, I am so bad at!<br />
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Sir is a pro at talking dirty. Smooth and,mm...yes. Me? Hah! I stutter, blush, and once things get going a lot of "Oh, please Sir." "Yes Sir." "Harder Sir." "Mmm, yes, oooo godddddds please fuck me Sir." "Mmmph,May I please cum, Sir?!" type statements come out. <br />
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Another friend posted something on the same topic the other day, I would link it, but I am short on time here. But, in a comment to her I mentioned the one thing that I have found that can help me with this. That is asking permission to ask for whatever it is I feel I may be needing or wanting. It is then up to Him, for He knows what is best and if I should get whatever that said thing is. This does help with a lot of things. Except maybe the above scenario, which, I just completely struggle with like the dirty talk. <br />
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It got me to thinking though, there must be some sort of way to get ourselves more comfortable with asking and communicating those needs/wants/desires and so on. So, of course you all know me - after thinking about this, I decided to throw out another input post. What do you think? How do you handle this sort of thing? Doms, what are your thoughts on this topic? Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-77169183634153133312015-01-29T13:17:00.000-07:002015-01-29T13:17:03.133-07:00<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0"> New question from <a href="http://chaoticlilimp.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Chaotic Lil Imp!</a> :)</span></span></span><br />
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<b><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">What
is one fantasy you have but have not lived. Why haven't you lived it?
If you have none share your favorite fantasy that has come true and what
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">Hm. Another tough one. </span></span></span><br />
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0"></span></span></span><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">We have done just about everything so far. I have many favorites in all the things we have tried and explored. The one that screams out in my mind though, is the Daddy/lg/sister or triad dynamic. While things with our ex ended so badly, when it was good, it was really good. We were working on that threesome/triad dynamic. </span></span></span><br />
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">We got a feel of what it would be like for Him to have both His girls. For me to have Him, plus her. The feelings of closeness that can be had in a triad can be amazing if with the right people. While it takes so much work...so much communication...so much honesty, what relationship doesn't for it to really work?</span></span></span><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0"> </span></span></span><br />
<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0"><br /></span></span></span>
<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">I miss the closeness, not just in sex...but in all things. Curling up and watching a movie. Enjoying every day things with one another. A shared bath. A shared spanking. Big puppy pile sessions with junk food, good music and conversation. </span></span></span><br />
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".1fi.$mid=11422560193860=2e2977fb1dcd967bf67.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$0:0">I am not real sure this falls into the fantasy category, for it's something we do want to make a reality once again. When the time is right. But, it's all that came to mind. xx</span></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-79285804999113166902015-01-28T11:59:00.000-07:002015-01-28T11:59:07.010-07:00KOTW: Oh, paddles! How to survive them.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Paddles. Love them, or hate them. Can we do both? Ok, I admit it. They turn this brat on!<br />
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What a sting they can deliver. Sir makes His own. A lot of them have evil little holes in them...,<b>ouch</b>. Those enhance the sting for sure. But holy cripes, are they hot, huh?<br />
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I find my thoughts being seriously conflicting when it comes to paddles, though. Around here paddles are one of the main implements that Sir uses for punishments. It's a real love hate thing for me. Love the way they instantly put me into place. Love that they really get the point across. Love the marks that they can leave. Love how my body responds to them. But yes, ouch. Very very effective. <br />
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With that said, as much as I love/<strike>hate </strike>paddles, I have sat here since yesterday not knowing what to say about them! But then while sitting here and talking a good friend, he says - you could make it about how to survive a paddling. Oh yes. Yes yes. That, I can do! With that, I present to you- how to survive a paddling!<br />
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<li>Remember to <u>relax</u>. Try not to tense up. It seems silly, but a well delivered swat always hurts more when we tense up or flex. </li>
<li>Remember to <u>breathe</u>. Take nice and slow deep breaths during. Again, try to stay relaxed. </li>
<li><u>Focus.</u> Focus on your submission. Or on why you are being paddled to begin with. Remind yourself of all the things that a good paddling brings to both you, and your Dominant. </li>
<li>Let yourself sink into what is happening with your body. Soon your body will start responding to the endorphins,and you will likely fall into subspace. Once you do, those swats are going to be a bit easier to take. There are a couple types of subspace, but in this case it is said to be caused by endorphins and adrenaline. </li>
<li>Let your body react. I don't know if it's just me, but even during punishment my body responds to it. Doesn't matter my state of mind, say I just got in trouble, lectured and now spanked.. I will still find myself wet, and my body....very responsive and ready to be used. </li>
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<li>This one may not help everyone, but it helps me. I love the marks the next day. I love that every time I sit down I can feel the impact the paddling had on my bottom <i>and</i> my mind. I try to remember this as those first swats start to sting, I look forward to the marks after and the feelings that come with them. </li>
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If anyone has been trying to read during my chaotic mess today, I apologize. The construction will be done soon. I hope!<br />
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Day 10: What are your hard limits?<br />
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Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?<br />
This question isn't very specific. What comes to mind for me is, safe sane and consensual and RACK. <br />
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<li>Risk-aware: Both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity.</li>
<li>Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of
sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity.</li>
<li>Kink: Said activity can be classified as alternative sex.</li>
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In this lifestyle *and any, really*, it's all very important. Safety should always be a top priority. Not sure what else to say on this question, it's rather vague. If anyone would like me to elaborate thoughts on this, just comment and I will be happy to do so.<br />
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Day 12: Tell
us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t
had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.<br />
Not really BDSM, but kink related. My all time funny would still be <a href="http://mortuarychick.blogspot.com/p/oral-gone-omg.html" target="_blank">Oral gone OMG. </a><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-11755658591304237142015-01-22T08:52:00.001-07:002015-01-22T08:52:59.627-07:00A few random questions from the brat! A few random questions:<br />
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If I were to go back to having my own Domain.. how many of you guys would still follow/read? <br />
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It's been suggested to me that I take up video blogging to add to normal posting here - what do you guys think about this? I am thinking of making a test run of it, but would need a fun starting topic to do it with!<br />
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Do you guys think it's time for a new look around here...perhaps something a bit more sexy? Or, should I leave the layout alone. :P<br />
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I have some exciting news, I have been talking with the editor over at www.simplysxy.com, after getting a couple of very kind emails from them. I will be writing some topics for them and featured on the site. I am so excited. I already have my first topic assignment in the works here, stay tuned! <br />
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Hope everyone is having a good week! I know I have a few new readers this week, a few I know personally and am very happy to have here. A shout out to you guys, mwah! xx<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-2479181521654618822015-01-21T15:21:00.001-07:002015-01-25T13:03:42.733-07:00Ask brat. Positions for a sub/slave:<i> Dear brat, could you share a list of submissive and slave positions for those of us who are new? Love your blog. My Master and I both hope to see more ask brat and advice posts. Thank you in advance, kira</i><br />
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Hi kira! I have to admit, this is a subject I sorely need to work on myself, so I am happy to share a list I have had sitting here for awhile now. I don't recall where I got this list, but it seems a decent one. I hope it helps!<br />
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<h4>
Positions for a sub/slave:</h4>
Bara:<br />
The slave moves to lay face down upon the floor, face to the floor,
head turned to the left, legs straight with ankles crossed and wrists
crossed at the small of the bac<br />
Belly:<br />
The slave moves to her belly, hands palms down near the sides of her head, forehead to the ground and waits for further orders<br />
Belly Crawl:<br />
From the Belly position, except hands to her sides, the slave crawls to the Master.<br />
Bracelets:<br />
In this standard binding position the girl turns to face away from the
Master, back and shoulders straight, wrists held at the small of the
back for ease in attaching slave bracelets<br />
Crawl:<br />
The slave gets
down on all fours, palms to elbows flat against the floor, bottom in
the air, forehead close but not quite touching the ground and crawls to
within inches of the Master's feet.<br />
Collaring Position:<br />
Sometimes referred to as the submission/collaring position, binding
position, or posture of female submission. In this position the slave
kneels at the Master's feet and leans her body back, sitting upon her
heels, with her arms extended upward, crossed at the wrists, and her
head beneath them lowered in supplication.<br />
Display Position:<br />
Stands, feet about shoulders width apart, fingers laced behind the neck with elbows back, head up and eyes lowered.<br />
Gorean (Love) Bow:<br />
kneels in nadu position, she bends her body backwards, her head to the
floor, she places her hands by her head, and pulls up into a back bend.
(this position is very painful to maintain for longer than 5 min<br />
Hair:<br />
The girl stands and bows at the waist, letting her hair fall forward
for display, to be seized or for any other purpose the Master might
require. Another varient of this position sometime used is for the slave
to stay in her previous position just bowing her head and letting her
hair dangle before her for whatever use required.<br />
Heel:<br />
The
slave goes to the Master's left if He is right handed, right if left
handed and about one and a half paces behind Him. She follows His
movements from that point<br />
High-Harness:<br />
A position in which a
kneeling, braceleted slave is displayed by her Master for the perusal
of others. A leash or lead is attached to her collar and raised until
her head carriage is very high, her chin thrust forward, her neck
stretched straight upward from her shoulders. Sometimes a Master will
command a girl to assume this position even when she has not been
leashed and braceleted, for his viewing pleasure. An excellent position
whereby a slave's mouth can be forced open for feeding, or to have her
teeth checked.<br />
Kneel to the Coffle:<br />
Kneels, normally thighs
parted, up upon the heels and lifts either the left or right wrist
outwards, depending on the type of coffle, so that the wrist can be
attached to a wrist ring within the coffle chain.<br />
Leading:<br />
The slave stands and moves behind her Master,slightly to His left or
right side depending on which of His hands is dominant,bending at the
waist. She places her hands behind her and puts the side of her head to
her Master's hip, that he might lead her easily by the hair while
walking. Alternately the Master may simply drop his hand to his hip
(usually his left hand to his left hip) and open and close it,
signalling non-verbally that he wishes the slave to place her hair
within his hand, at his disposal, for leading<br />
Lesha (Standard Binding Position):<br />
From the Schendese(?) word Lesha, which possibly translates as "leash"
or "bonds." In this position, the slave remains either standing or
kneeling, depending upon the current position she is in. She turns and
puts her back to her Master, her chin up, her head turned to the left so
a leash may be attached to her collar, with her back and shoulders
straight. Her wrists are extended behind her, side by side, in a
position to be locked into chained slave bracelets. If she is already
prone, the slave crosses her wrists behind her back, and also crosses
her ankles, in preparation to be tied or chained.<br />
Nadu (also known as Pleasure Slave Position):<br />
The first and most often used of all of the Gorean slave positions, and
one of the first ones a slave learns. The command is often called
"Nadu," from what seems to be a common Gorean word for "kneel." In this
position the slave kneels and sits upon her heels with her back and
shoulders straight, her chest out, belly in, and her head up, though she
averts her eyes to the floor. Her thighs are open, widely spread, and
her hands rest upon her thighs. A common misconception of this position
is that the ankles are crossed. Occasionally the wrists are crossed
behind the back, a variation which seems to be practiced in several
cities, notably the city of Thentis. There is a nonverbal command signal
associated with this position: to signal that the slave should assume
the position, the Master may simply point to the floor and then, with
his first two fingers extended and his hand palm-downward, spread his
first two fingers open (the index and pointer fingers) as if they were
the slave's "legs" opening to kneel. The slave is expected to respond to
this gesture as they would to the spoken command<br />
Nadu Note: In
the position of nadu, a slaves hands show her desire towards the One she
kneels before.. many seem to think that it is always knelt in palms
up.. that isnt the case, a girl would turn her palms up to Him showing
that she desired to please in any way.<br />
Nestle:<br />
When a slave is told to nestle she fits herself against the Master's side, snuggling into the crook of His arm.<br />
Obedience<br />
The slave lays upon their stomach, face down before the Freeperson
turning their head and placing their cheek against their feet. They kiss
the Freeperson's feet lightly in a gesture of love and submission. She
may also lick them or dust them with her hair in this manner.<br />
Obeisance:<br />
There are a few different forms of this position though all have the
same basic meaning behind it. Each is a show of female submission. Here
are three:<br />
1) the slave kneels in nadu with her head lowered.<br />
2)
from nadu, the slave lowers head to the ground, placing her hands
against the ground, palms lowered. (this is sometimes refered to as
karta)<br />
3) the slave moves to her belly and slowly inches forward to
the Master's feet and at that point proceeds to lick and kiss at them
before bellying back somewhat. (this position is known among many as the
"belly" position)<br />
Placate<br />
This command is can be either
ordered by the Freeperson or begged for by the slave. The slave is
usually always in the nadu position at a Freeperson's feet. The slave
then leans over and starting at his feet, begins to lick, kiss and
stroke them, working their way up the Freeperson's body, pleasuring them
with their lips,tongue, and hands to the very best of their ability.<br />
Prostrate (Karta):<br />
kneel, thighs parted and touch forehead to the floor, stretch arms out before you with palms face down and fingers spread.<br />
Run<br />
When this command is given, the slave runs toward their objective,
taking short rapid steps, with legs almost straight, feet hardly leaving
the floor. As they move, their back is straight, head is turned to the
left, and arms are at their sides, palms facing outward at a 45 degree
angle to the body. Upon reaching the objective the slave drops
gracefully to their knees and typically resumes the position of nadu.<br />
She-Sleen:<br />
moves to knees and elbows, hands clasped over your head, bottom in the
air, ready for either being beaten on the bottom or being taken from
behind like an animal.<br />
Slave Lips<br />
When this command is given,
the slave turns their head up to the Freeperson, lips pursed in a
sensual kissing position. The slave remains motionless, lips thusly
puckered, and may not move until the slave is granted the kiss of the
Freeperson. This can be used to silence a slave until the Freeperson is
ready to allow them speech again.<br />
Slaver's Caress or Whip Caress:<br />
to the floor on all fours, cheek pressed to the ground, bottom high in the air, thighs widely spread, slaves heat exposed.<br />
Stand:<br />
shoulders back, with feet slightly parted, the left foot somewhat
forward of the right with a slight flex in the knee and the feet angled
out a bit, hips canted slightly, right hand rests palm in on the hip,
left hand resting with the palm against the upper thigh, This is a
seductive pose<br />
Standard Binding Position:<br />
When ordered into
standard binding position the girl lays on the ground, wrists crossed
behind the back and ankles crossed. (this is most likely another name
for bara)<br />
Submission:<br />
knelt before the Master, head lowered, lifting and extending arms up to Him, wrists crossed.<br />
Sula or Prone:<br />
lay on back on the floor, spread feet shoulder-width apart, and rest arms with palms up at sides, awaiting His pleasure.<br />
Sula-Ki:<br />
This is not an actual position. Below is a portion of the books often
referred to as "sula-ki" online. lays on back on the floor feet to the
floor, hands at sides palms open and up, legs are spread widely apart,
readyfor sex or bondage or control lift hips off the floor slowly to
entice usage<br />
Supine Capture Position:<br />
The slave lays down
upon her back, bending her knees to place her feet flat against the
ground, hands at her side and remains motionless.<br />
Thentis<br />
The
slave assumes nadu or tower then the wrists are crossed behind the back
instead of upon thighs. This gives the effect of the chest or breasts
being thrust forward, even further enhancing the appearance.<br />
Tile<br />
When Freepersons pass by in a hallway, room, or otherwise, slaves are
to stop what the are doing and go down to their knees into tower or
nadu, and then quickly lower their forehead to the floor, their arms
outstretched and remain in this still position until the free person, or
persons have completely passed by, or the Freeperson decides to command
the slaves otherwise.<br />
Tower Kneel(Nadu):<br />
There is another
variation of Nadu in which the slave kneels the same way, but with her
knees modestly together. This variation is referred to as Tower Slave
Position and is typically reserved for underage or white-silk
slavegirls, or slavegirls who serve their Master in a non-sexual way,
such as a Tower Slave or female Work Slave. When at rest, the slaves
hands can be modestly crossed at the wrist, and lay in her lap.<br />
Usage<br />
The slave falls to all fours, head up, eyes forward, thighs spread
wide, bottom thrust into the air, to await the use of the Freeperson.<br />
Walk<br />
When this command is given, the slave turns in a graceful pirouette,
hair swinging. The slave then walks, gliding across the room, feet
hardly seeming to leave the floor, hips swaying sensually, body erect
and proud. When the reaches the objective they halt and stand, body
erect, shoulders back, chest thrust forward, belly in. the slave turns
their hips out a bit, hands at their sides, and points one foot. The
head is up and the eyes are lowered.<br />
Whipping Position:<br />
quickly drops to knees, and place forehead to the floor, hips raised
high, cross arms across belly fingers gripping your sides. Another
variation is to kneel in nadu, back towards the Master, cross your arms
in front of you, across your chest.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-75842757079811930732015-01-20T09:09:00.000-07:002015-01-20T09:09:30.615-07:0030 Days of Kink: Days 1 - 8. I never did get around to the 30 Days of Kink! Let's see if I can just knock some of these out in one or two posts. 30 days, blah, I have other things to write about. Ahaha, see.. I am back after all. Thatta girl, brat. <br />
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Day 1: Dom,
sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an
interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically
define your kinky self for us.<br />
<b>submissive. sub sub sub. From my head, to my toes - me trying to be Dominant is purely laughable. I know, because I have tried. In depth definition, sheesh, I'm on my first cup of coffee and we're getting deep already!</b> <b>It's not just something that I do, it's part of who I am, a huge part. </b><br />
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Day 2: List your kinks.<br />
<b>I don't think any of us has that much time. There isn't much that we've done, that I haven't enjoyed. I am very much the type that will try almost anything once, and go back screaming for more if I liked it. </b><br />
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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?<br />
<b>Think I always knew, even at a younger age. </b><br />
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Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?<br />
<b>Think I have mentioned this here at the blog before, but as a kid my Oma (German Grandmother) would always tell me the story of Father Christmas at Christmas time. How he would go through each village to see the children, the naughty kids wouldn't get coal, but would get the switch. Oh, how my mind turned at that idea. </b><br />
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Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.<br />
<b>Hm. Probably the first time I was ever with another girl beyond kissing and messing around. The guy I was dating knew I wanted to go further in trying things in that area. He also knew I had it pretty bad for a mutual friend of ours. He had me blindfolded, and brought her in. I thought it was him going down on me, but when I reached down, I found a lot more hair. Was a very intense and hot night, that lead to a lot of fun between the three of us for awhile. </b><br />
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Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.<br />
<b>This is always a favorite - <a href="http://mortuarychick.blogspot.com/p/blog-page_5292.html" target="_blank">Sister Fantasy.</a></b><br />
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Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?<br />
<b>The Hitachi.</b><br />
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Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.<br />
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0"> <a href="http://chaoticlilimp.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Chaotic Lil Imp </a>and I are going to do some challenging one another,and give each other some topics and questions to get us out of that not posting funk. Her first question to me is:</span></span></span><br />
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<i><b><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">What has changed within your dynamic this past year? Is it a positive or negative change? How has it affected how you serve?</span></span></span></b></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">This was a question I had to sit and really think about. A lot has changed in the last year with us. Him going through His medical retirement process, me coming off of the meds.. the plans to move later this year, etc. We left the local community, we've been out of place - out of touch with our 24/7 dynamic. We have so many changes coming this year as well. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">We've been so out of the lifestyle loop, and for awhile there, I just didn't feel like myself.. at all. My submission is such a huge part of who I am. The small things, didn't change much, some things become such a natural thing to do. But, a lot in the discipline area just lacked being there. I think it's safe to say that anyone who lives this way finds that, without consistency, things really start to slide. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">An example would be - <b>say I spill something, then trip over something, then step on a lego for the 100th time this week. Sh*t - mumble - insert other swear words there. </b></span></span></span></i><br />
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<b><i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">Oops, I just swore.. and broke the no swearing rule.... again.</span></span></span></i></b><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0"><b>Nothing happens - so unlike Him. Houston we have a problem here! Hm, sh*t. Hey, I broke it again..... nothing.</b> And so on, and so on. Before you know it, you're often breaking that rule. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">That was often how it has gone over the last year. <b> </b></span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">The good news is though, is we've sat and talked a lot about this lately. Figuring out the why's of it all, and how to get us both back into that place that is us, and makes us happy. We sat and went back over the rules, and had set a restart date that was Monday. We're making and working on the changes that get me back into my submission fully, and Him back into His Dominance. We both agree that is who we are, not just how we live, and how important it is to do all we can to get back on track. Yes! I see that progress marker even closer this time!</span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">How did it affect how I served? Well, some things are just me and how I do things , and such habit to do. Serving coffee, serving Him, those things didn't get off track much. For me, it was more - breaking a lot of the smaller rules, and knowing that even though I was, no real discipline or consequence would come from it. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">When it comes to dynamics, the other change would be, we agreed to open ourselves back up to polyamorous as well. We're going slow with it, but are determined not to let the one very bad relationship with our ex girlfriend ruin who we are, and future relationships. We've taken the time to heal and get past it, it's now time to move on. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">Thank you for the thought invoking, and very time appropriate question, chaotic imp. :) I look forward to doing more of these with you! We'll spank this writers block.. you'll see. </span></span></span><i><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0"> xx</span></span></span><b><span class="_5yl5" data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0"><span data-reactid=".k0.$mid=11421108370111=25991a5452f6016f705.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$end:0:$2:0"> </span></span></span></b></i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4594479561284139819.post-48525842789124862602015-01-01T12:25:00.001-07:002015-01-25T13:09:13.777-07:00Helping brat get her writing groove back?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9il9fNSMpQSvTIde_8WPXdRSv-ge6B1UCuVskEjcj85eejthkHB8uOGzl49Pr0ADQCcpgaUBOVBDr1vw1rQMVozgsT2XMfO7VKyWRnLhJVhbC2kNT0g6djfKjhaAdnzHnk5E2UuOB4cY/s1600/writers-block1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9il9fNSMpQSvTIde_8WPXdRSv-ge6B1UCuVskEjcj85eejthkHB8uOGzl49Pr0ADQCcpgaUBOVBDr1vw1rQMVozgsT2XMfO7VKyWRnLhJVhbC2kNT0g6djfKjhaAdnzHnk5E2UuOB4cY/s1600/writers-block1.jpg" height="240" width="320" /></a>Wishing all my wonderful and kinky friends here in blogland and google plus a very happy, sexy New Year!<br />
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I've been bad about writing, yet again. And I have been doing a lot of thinking, self reflecting and such in the last couple of months since coming off of the meds. Things here, have been really off track. With Daddy preparing for His medical retirement and all the changes that are coming with it - me coming off of the meds and relearning how to live and function without the pain relief and so on, that I just get into a funk where I don't feel like I have much to share or write about.<br />
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We left the local community here awhile ago after the breakup with our Ex girlfriend, and that also took a lot of the topics out of my head. A lot of adjustments. We will be reentering the community once we move, but feel it's best to step out of the local one here with all the upcoming changes. In doing that, though. A lot of the exciting experiences, lessons and etc. are not really that present to write about. <br />
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I have gotten some wonderful advice from the so very kind <a href="http://floridadomscorner.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Flordia Dom</a>, thank you again, FD. and we're working on getting things back on track in the 24/7 life.<br />
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When I first came back to blogging, I was often finding things that kept me writing - 30 days of submission, or things like that. While they could be a bit redundant, it kept me motivated and writing. Other topics seemed to flow freely when I had other things here as well to keep me focused. I may try some new things like that this year - but I also am going to seek help from all of you. Throw me questions, topics, writing challenges, anything and I will write or answer them here. Hold nothing back. ;)<br />
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If, I start to slack, Daddy has agreed to be the enforcer behind it, with whatever punishment seems fitting. I believe writing blog posts in crayon before getting typed was mentioned, Eee! x_x<br />
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Of course, I am going to make myself a list as well, and ask Daddy to think on it also. So there will hopefully be a lot of other fun, kinky or hopefully interesting posts from that as well. ;) I am on a New Years mission! What do you guys say - challenge this brat? Help me find my writing groove again? <br />
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I truly hope you all have had an absolute wonderful Holiday. I have come to think so much of all you here - and cannot wait to see what 2015 brings us all! Happy New Year, everyone. xxAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.com16