What is a Daddy Dom?
People ask, What is a Daddy Dom. Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nurtures, shapes, and molds his baby girl into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes more in her, than she believes in herself.
His
love for his baby girl goes without question. He loves her as much for
who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is
...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she
comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. After all, He
helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and
has greatest power to hurt Him.
This
love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel
pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the
outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for
the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s
value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man
and she chooses to be with Him.
He
knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His
discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In
order for the little girl to really trust, she must know He means what He
says. If His little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must
stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to
provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If
He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing.
If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing
her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes
impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be
possessed by someone you do not respect.
This
takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her,
and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her
confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out
into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And
it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be
disciplined.
A
Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His
submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her,
everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she
knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t
matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
A
Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many
Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their
submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls
because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an
incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I
think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the
role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their
power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and
adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants
crave.
so very well put
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