There is something I have been pondering for awhile. Bear *or bare ;)* with me, as I try to organize this into words that make sense.
Almost all submissive types aim to please. Nothing pleases us more and most of us hate getting into actual trouble. We get that bad feeling in the pit of our tummies - much like when we were kids. We take our punishments, do our best to learn from them and do better. And gods help us, we try dang hard from not doing it again. For a sub, it's one of the worse things to know that you have disobeyed or disappointed your Dominant(s).
With that being said and known, is it an extremely odd thing for me to admit that I sometimes find myself craving punishment? With being the very naturally submissive person that I am - and having those thoughts.. of please, yes - punish me... it can leave the mind... conflicted.
You come across a story - or a nice little video... The sub being sent to the corner, then laid across the lap. Or bent over a nice hard surface, bottom up and exposed.. just waiting for the implement to bite against the tender flesh. The stern words... the strong hand around the throat... or grabbing a fistful of hair... and... Oh! You find yourself squirming, your mind racing... and you see those thoughts forming in the back of your mind, where you are crawling to your Dom/me, perhaps a belt in between your teeth - your eyes big and pleading.
You want to please, you want to serve.. you want to do everything you possibly can to make your
Talk about conflicting!
So now I ask you all. Am I alone in these crazy feelings? Do you ever crave punishment?
Is there maintenance spankings in your relationship/dynamic?
I ask the last, because I have noticed that I feel a lot more in place, and don't have these type of cravings as much when there are maintenance spankings on a normal basis.
How about the Dominants out there? Do You as a Dominant ever crave giving punishment? Same type of feelings, just on the other side of the coin?
Any other thoughts on this topic? I will do a follow up post on this after I have received some input from you wonderful readers.
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