Day 6: What do you feel are the roots of your submission? Do you think it has something to do with childhood?
We covered most of this in my thoughts about my submission and childhood in last weeks Submissive Task Sunday (found here).
I would say that yes, it is very likely that my submission does have something to do with my childhood.
Is it a relationship
management tool as in the practice of domestic discipline?
A relationship management tool? Um, I really have no idea how to answer this one. We've always had an awesome relationship (With both Sir and Ma'am). I think, with, or without the D/s, we would manage just fine. Perhaps I am not understanding this part fully. o.O
In my view, if there are problems in a relationship, they will be there whether or not you go into a D/s relationship or not. I can see how it *may* help for some, but if there are problems existing, it could always make it worse as well. These type of dynamics take full trust, honesty and communication. If one submits to another, it is normally because (or should be) they trust their Dominant with everything they are.. and have.
Is it a
sexual thrill or something else?
Of course there is a sexual thrill to it - sexual tingles - wobbly legs - swooning - eyes rolling back into your head in complete pleasure - wall banging orgasms - lovely red bottoms - hands around throats.... um, wait, I had a question to answer!
While yes - I do have many.... *many* fetishes, and so many things about the lifestyle do turn me on and add a sexual thrill... there is SO much more to it.. That is not just what it is about. Or at least it shouldn't be. For those that it is just about that, are often those who like this stuff just in the bedroom, not as a full time thing.
It's about comfort, security, finally being free in ways you never imagined before, about giving someone else the control, and letting them guide you and protect you. Letting them have the power to help you become everything you *could/can* and *want* to be. When one fully submits to another, they often grow as a person and discover things that were hidden deep inside of them.
- Ask brat anything! (questions and advice)
- Stories by brat.
- Picture Notice.
- Daddy's Rules.
- 30 Days of Kink.
- 30 Days of Submission. *Questions*
- Ma'am's Rules.
- What is a Daddy Dominant?
- About brat...
- Testimonials. (What they say about brat!)
- Oral Gone *OMG*!
- New girl on the *shock*.
- Sister Fantasy.
- The Storm.
- Shower Punishment.