Hey guys! I am almost a week behind with the wifi issue we had,and then Sir coming home.. so I will catch up on these in two posts, 3 days per post.
Day 7: Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it?
Yes.. absolutely. It is a part of our dynamics. I hate actually getting in trouble, I am rather impish and playful, but I am one who tries to never be disrespectful or downright bad/unkind/rude etc.
Disappointing someone is always such a bad feeling, especially when they are your Dominant. For me, I feel it's needed in our dynamic, it helps keep me in place... it helps me grow and learn and it just overall works for us.
Day 8: Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not?
Yes, if Sir finds it is needed or fitting. He is very much a, punishment fits the crime type Dom. He'll often combine spanking with another fitting punishment , like an example would be for swearing... soap in the mouth, or brushing teeth with soap - spanking - corner.
We also have spanking within play, just because He feels it's needed or wanted, or He will sometimes grant me a spanking if asked nicely, or during sex , etc. We used to do maintenance spankings as well. (another post coming about that soon!)
I often hear that a lot of submissives find that spanking is not an effective punishment for them, because they like them so much. For me though, Sir's punishment/discipline spankings are so very different than His play/sex/other reason spankings. And they are indeed very effective for me.
Day 9: Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them?
Yes. yes yes yes. Not only do I accept/expect them, I need them. I do best with these things being part of my submission. I know this about myself, and am at my best with them in tact. Without them, I start to feel very out of place.
*note - I've noticed a lot of bloggers wanting to do the 30 days of submission. I've sent the questions to a couple of people, and now have added a tab on top of my blog with the questions for easy access. Please feel free to them if you are one who wanting to do this as well. xxoo brat
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