Friday, August 8, 2014

30 Days of submission. Day 23.

Day 23: Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?

Is there anything about submission that I dislike or repels me? In myself - no. In others? no. Everyone is different and unique. Everyone in the lifestyle has different needs/wants and desires. Who would I be to judge how they submit? I really feel that in every dynamic, it is, and should be about what works for them. Anything that I question? Again, who would I be to question how another submits? It's not my place to do so. If someone is happy in how they submit and they are pleasing their Dominant- however that is, then go for it, I say.

Was there a time I questioned or were resistant to my own submissive feelings? 
Nope. I've been guilty of being resistant to other sides of myself - baby girl side, puppy side etc. in the past, but not my actual submission. Sir helps me work on that, and I hope to eventually embrace those sides of myself as fully as I do my submission. 


  1. I feel the same way - Why would I judge someone else if it works for them?

    I do question parts of my submission - especially the Pet side. I LOVE to be His human pet but at the same time it makes me uncomfortable. And I don't really know why.

    I guess I have some more soul searching to do on that topic.

    1. Master's Pet, exactly! :)

      And I very much know what you mean about questioning the pet side - when I mentioned being guilty of questioning my puppy/little sides and such, I've gone through the same type of thoughts. I think it's normal for us to do that at times, maybe? Maybe we could talk about that subject sometime.. if you'd like. :) xx

  2. Love your answers to this question. Who are we to judge other people and their dynamics? There is no one "twue way" in TTWD. Perfect!


    1. Thank you, sweetie! And yes - exactly! :) Loved the "twue way" hehe! You're so cute! :)


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